This course will:

  • Help women to understand men better

  • Help people build more loving relationships

  • Give women more confidence when interacting with men

  • Give women more confidence in the bedroom

  • Help women to heal their relationship with the penis

  • Hep women to be sexually empowered, because they are interacting with the man from a loving and accepting place

  • Help a woman to be more orgasmic in her vagina, because she is present to the penis entering here

  • Help men bring more of their awareness into their genitals

  • Help men to re-connect to their bodies and their sexuality

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What is the benefit of this course?

Why penis massage?

Who is this course for?

  • First time relationships

    People entering a first-time relationship with a partner with a penis. This could be virgins or brides who want to meet their new partner with comfort and ease.

  • Women

    Women who would like to understand the bodies of their male partners better. Many women find empowerment and healing by really loving and accepting their partner's penis.

  • Men

    Men who want to re-connect to their sensitivity and feeling. This course is also insightful for men who want to prolong the duration of their erection or learn ejaculation control.

How to use this course

- Focus on Receiving and feeling -

  • Create a 'holding  space' for your man where he can simply relax into receiving and feeling sensations without having to perform.
  • The massage could even bring up emotions for him - allow those to be experienced and expressed without talking about them in the massage session. They can be discussed in the debrief afterwards. 
  • Vocal expression, tears, laughter or pleasure... all is welcome
  • You will see I am showing two massages - the first one is from the perspective of the vagina and the second is purely to meet the man. You can choose to watch only one or both.
  • A soft penis is welcome, meet the man exactly as he is; He can feel as much with a soft penis as with an erect penis.
  • You will be shown a whole series of techniques to use with his lovely penis. I suggest watching the video first on your own before applying them on your partner 
  • Play around with a variety of the techniques and using your intuition to guide you.
  • There are no rules or set techniques; the most important is to see this as a gift of allowing him to feel in a very deep and intimate manner.
  • Important! No need to race towards an ejaculation, play as long as you can by pulling back from the edge whenever you get close to it. This will prolong the meditation of feeling and of being in the pleasure state.
  • If ejaculation happens, that is absolutely fine, since we are playing on that fine line. We won't know where the edge is if we do not crash over it every now and again.

  • And then... I would really welcome your feedback and questions, so I can keep improving and adding to the course content.

Course curriculum

A man's penis represents his self-expression

Are you in a relationship with a person with a penis? By exploring and understanding the complex sensitivity of our male partners genitals, we are able to meet them with more awareness and presence during love-making

  • A man's penis is an expression of his love, passion and strength
  • A man who is in touch with his penis feels more confident in his masculinity
  • A man who feels sexy, feels more enthusiastic about life
  • Men yearn to have deep meaningful heart connections with their lovers
  • It is important to deeply love and respect the penis when engaging sexually with a man
  • It will be beneficial for men to have more sensitivity in their penises
  • It will be good if society could build a better relationship towards men's bodies, one of love and honour

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The penis is explored as a multi-faceted organ with many different areas of sensation and feeling.We

We keep spreading the feeling of pleasure through the rest of the body.


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Your Course instructor

Leán Bakker

Leán Bakker

Leán is an acclaimed choreographer, dancer and performance artist. She is trained in Voice Movement Therapy (VMT). VMT is an expressive arts therapy that engages the voice, body and imagination to give expression to all that we are. She facilitates weekly ecstatic dance sessions in which body, sensuality and voice is combined. After experiencing a profound sexual awakening she feels called to share this knowledge with others. She has a thriving practice in on-on-one sexuality guidance, working with men, women and couples. She has completed the ISTA (International School of the Temple Arts) level one training in 2020.

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