This short course is an extract from my longer course: How to be multi-orgasmic.

In the orgasmic coarse, I dedicate a section to our relationship with the masculine entering the vagina. This involves getting to know and love the penis. It helps to build a healthy and loving relationship with the penis.

I decided to make this section available as a separate course, for those who would like to focus on the masculine aspect of our sexuality. Please take note: If you buy the 'how to be multi-orgasmic' course, you will also have access to exactly the same information as provided in this course.
Lingam massage

A man's penis represents his energy, love and passion in this world

Are you in a relationship with a person with a penis? By exploring and understanding the complex sensitivity of our male partner's genitals, we are able to meet them with more awareness and presence during love-making

  • A man's penis is an expression of his love, passion and strength
  • A man who is in touch with his penis feels more confident in his masculinity
  • A man who feels sexy, feels more enthusiastic about life
  • Men yearn to have deep meaningful heart connections with their lovers
  • It is important to deeply love and respect the penis when engaging sexually with a man
  • It will be beneficial for men to have more sensitivity in their penises
  • It will be good if society could build a better relationship towards men's bodies, one of love and honour

This course will:

  • Give women a deeper understanding of the complexity of the penis

  • Help people build more loving relationships

  • Give women more confidence when interacting with men

  • Give women more confidence in the bedroom

  • Help women to heal their relationship with the penis

  • Hep women to be sexually empowered, because they are interacting with the man from a loving and accepting place

  • Help a woman to be more orgasmic in her vagina, because she is present to the penis entering here

  • Help men bring more of their awareness into their genitals

  • Help men to re-connect to their bodies and their sexuality

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What is the benefit of this course?

Why penis massage?

Who is this course for?

  • Couples

    The penis massage or Lingam massage is a beautiful and intimate sensual exploration for couples. Bring this loving ritual into your interactions to deepen connection and understanding.

  • Women

    Would you like to handle the penis like a Pro ? Would you like to learn various different techniques to touch and stimulate your male partner. Would you like to feel more confident when interacting with men.

  • Men

    Men who want to re-connect to their sensitivity and feeling. This course is also insightful for men who want to prolong the duration of their erection or learn ejaculation control.

How to use this course

- Focus on Receiving and feeling -

  • Create a 'holding  space' for your man where he can simply relax into receiving and feeling sensations without having to perform.
  • The massage could even bring up emotions for him - allow those to be experienced and expressed without talking about them in the massage session. They can be discussed in the debrief afterwards. 
  • Vocal expression, tears, laughter or pleasure... all is welcome
  • You will see I am showing two massages - the first one is from the perspective of the vagina and the second is purely to meet the man. You can choose to watch only one or both.
  • A soft penis is welcome, meet the man exactly as he is; He can feel as much with a soft penis as with an erect penis.
  • You will be shown a whole series of techniques to use with his lovely penis. I suggest watching the video first on your own before applying them on your partner 
  • Play around with a variety of the techniques and using your intuition to guide you.
  • There are no rules or set techniques; the most important is to see this as a gift of allowing him to feel in a very deep and intimate manner.
  • Important! No need to race towards an ejaculation, play as long as you can by pulling back from the edge whenever you get close to it. This will prolong the meditation of feeling and of being in the pleasure state.
  • If ejaculation happens, that is absolutely fine, since we are playing on that fine line. We won't know where the edge is if we do not crash over it every now and again.

  • And then... I would really welcome your feedback and questions, so I can keep improving and adding to the course content.

Course curriculum


Enjoyed your course

I found the interviews with the men especially interesting. Thanks for including them. Enjoyed your course.

Thank you so much

I would like to thank you for such a great and educational videos about Lingam massage. I purchased it some time ago and was wondering if you have some more similar in your video collection? If not, is there any chance that you can record some more and also bit longer in the nearest future? It would be great and I would buy them straight away. The problem is that I have literally tons of videos regarding Tantric Lingam massage subject but non of them are some professional like yours. I have been training Tantra yoga and massage for a years but recently my goal is to achieve full body orgasm but so far with no results unfortunately. What I do is I play your videos on a TV and my wife follows your hands making my massage so magical and pleasurable.

Best sex

I applied your Lingam massage techniques to my loves and afterwards we had the best sex ever.

Learn Professional Lingam (penis) Massage

Become a master at this delicate practice

  • $48.00

    Please note this this is an online course, Nothing will be posted to your physical address

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Your Course instructor

Leán Bakker

Leán Bakker

My life has been dedicated to being fully in my body. I started my career as a professional contemporary dancer. Later I became choreographer and performance artist; exploring the deep expressions the body can utter. Always feeling life flowing through my movements. I studied Voice and Movement therapy where I explored expression of the emotions through voice, breath and postures. The body is always contracting and expanding with the soul. in 2018 I experienced a sexual awakening. What it brings to me is the awakening of the inner body energy flow. I am the most orgasmic person I know. Through years of body awareness, I am able to tune into waves of bliss in my entire body. Some call this kundalini awakening. For me it is simply feeling my original self, my connection to source through my body. My life work now is to translate this inner awareness to others. My approach is to communicate though my body in a practical user-friendly way.